SouthernStar amateur dancers with coach Alan Tuggey, Atlanta Open 1994 |
Alan Tuggey: A Dancer and a Gentleman
We are saddened by the loss of Alan Tuggey, but blessed to
have known him as a dear friend, a truly gentle man, and a devoted dance coach.
When Richard and I first met Alan in 1990, he immediately came to our rescue.
We were practicing and he was teaching a group class at the USF Dance
Department, and when we stupidly locked ourselves out of the studio where we
were rehearsing, he took the time to help us get back in using his key.
We were so taken with his kindly demeanor, courteous
attitude, and charming British manners – not to mention his expertise in
International Standard – that we asked him to coach us. He became not only our
coach, but a close friend who encouraged us and gave us moral support. He
prepared us for our first International Standard competition at Ohio Star Ball,
which was quite a challenge because his studio had a small floor, making the
floor at Ohio seem like a football field by comparison!
When we were asked to be the only amateur couple
performing with the U.S. Professional American Style Tour and Team Match in
Russia in 1992, Alan rose to the occasion to help us improve our theatrical
dance to “Rhapsody in Blue.” What he lacked in specific adagio training he made
up for in knowledge of dance fundamentals and in overall enthusiasm.
One day we were trying to do an overhead bird, and Alan
advised me to run at Richard with great speed to gain momentum. In the heat of
the moment, I unfortunately forgot that all lifts must go up, translating
horizontal momentum into vertical thrust, and I plowed into Richard and Alan
(who was standing behind him to spot) with all the power and grace of a football
tackle, knocking both men to the ground! Thankfully, no one was hurt, and we all shared
a good laugh over that mishap for many weeks to come!
Despite the many long hours Alan spent coaching us the
last 2 weeks before we left for Russia, he refused to accept payment for those
hours, saying with a gracious smile that he was doing his part to improve
international relations!
On the day that we closed on the purchase of the building
at 12101 N. 56th Street in Temple Terrace, FL, that would become
Rhapsody Ballroom, Alan agreed to teach us there even though the long, tedious
process of renovations had not yet begun. So Richard tore out a 6-foot square
of worn-out carpet, and Alan coached us on Latin Rumba on the bare cement, much
to the detriment of everyone’s shoes and feet! And we all worked up a sweat
since the air conditioning wasn’t working and it was a hot summer day in Florida!
Once the Rhapsody Ballroom was up and running, it seemed
to attract many dedicated and enthusiastic amateur competitors, due in large
part to Alan’s coaching and encouragement of dancers at all levels. He would
often travel at his own expense to competitions that his students had entered
so that he could cheer us on and give us a blow-by-blow description of our strengths
and weaknesses in the heat of battle.
Although he taught less in later years due to failing health, he staunchly supported amateur
competitions, not only with his attendance, but by donating scholarship money
and by judging and scrutineering in the days when all the tabulation was done
by hand. I used to feel so sorry for Alan stuck at the scrutineer’s table all
day, poring over the judges’ sheets without even being able to look up at the
dancing he loved so much!
Alan was a true gentleman, friend, and encourager who
always had a kind word and often a helpful bit of advice for amateur dancers,
whether or not they were his students. He touched the lives of many dancers who
are better for having known him, and he will be sorely missed.
Photo, left to right: Mike Johnston, Peg Johnston, Greg Burns, Sarah Coates, Alan Tuggey, Laurie Collett, Richard Collett
29 comments:
Laurie I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure he will be in your thoughts every time you dance.
Thanks so much, Leslie! Sadly, we were not able to attend a get-together in his memory Friday evening, but the reason was that we were competing an International Quickstep Showdance at the Florida Stare Championships! So we dedicated it to him, and we hope he would have been pleased.
God bless,
Laurie
Thanks Laurie for the lovely tribute to a truely gentleman and dancer. He was a kind and loving man who gave of himself for the benefit of others.
Thanks, Hazel, for your sweet comment! Blessings to you,
Lauroe
What a blessing to see how someone was been a blessing... when I leave for heaven some day, it would be nice to have my kids/g-kids/husband and friends see such a sweet article written about me. [I guess that means I better keep being nice and helpful and serving the Lord. Hmm!] Your story was worth a smile and filled with appreciation.
oh, Laurie, what a loving tribute to your friend Alan...sorry for your loss...what a gift to be able to dance and have such fond memories...blessings to you.
Dear Caryjo,
Thanks so much for your lovely comment! I'm sure your family would write lovely things about you, but I really hope we all get Raptured first!
God bless,
Laurie
Thanks so much, Dolly, for your dear words of encouragement. I love your post on Jubi and am sending cyberhugs your way.
God bless,
Laurie
i am very sorry for your loss, sweet laurie. what a touching tribute.
I'm sorry for your loss. What a lovely you pay here. Prayers for you!
What a kind tribute!
Dear Emily, Mandy, & Jennifer,
Thanks so much for your kind comments!
Blessings to you, lovely ladies, and love in Him,
Laurie
He sounds like a true gentleman--a rarity these days.
Thanks for linking up with WIP Wednesday!
Hugs all around on the loss of your dear friend. He will be missed and fondly remembered.
http://thejoyfulservant.com
Dear MB@NewLifeSteward,
Alan was a true gentleman indeed! Thanks for your comment & for hosting WIP Wed.. & God bless,
Laurie
Dear Ms. Kathleen,
Thanks so much for the hugs & kind words, & God bless,
Laurie
I didn't know you had another blog, but knew you danced.
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend and mentor.
Blessings,
Joan
Thanks, Joan, for your visit & comment! This blog is devoted to dancing, and I also have a third blog at our other website describing our dance ministry:
http://www.praisehimwithdance.com/
God bless,
Laurie
What a great tribute to your friend. Although it is always sad, I do love to see the legacies people leave behind and the impact they have had on those around them.
What a great tribute to your friend. Although it is always sad, I do love to see the legacies people leave behind and the impact they have had on those around them.
Thanks, Denise and Deanna, for your kind comments! When we reflect on the lives of those who are no longer with us, it reminds us of the opportunity we have to make a positive impact on others while we are still blessed with life on earth.
Love in Him,
Laurie
Alan and Iris, his then wife, also enthused us and helped to teach us to dance - but this time in the UK and long ago. They were our neighbours in Malvern, Worcestershire, England and when we expressed an interest in learning to dance, insisted that they came along with us - to beginners classes! It didn't take long for the penny to drop but, in typical fashion, they insisted that they needed to improve their basics too!
This was in the early 70s and we spent many happy hours with Alan and Iris, some of it at the dance studio in Worcester but probably more in our various living rooms late at night! I remember playing Neil Diamond's 'Hot August Night' over and over again!
As has been often said, Alan was the typical English gentleman and we shall always remember him for his great charm, humour and gentleness.
We loved him very much and, although not seeing a great deal of him and Diana in later years, we shall always do so
Dear Ivor,
Thank you so much for your comment! What a lovely view of Alan years before we met him! He did indeed leave a legacy of charm, humor, and gentleness.
Blessings to you,
Laurie
Hi don't know if you still do your blog but Alan tuggey was my great uncle he was a lovely man sadly missed xx x
He was a lovely man, he was my great uncle and what a amazing dancer he was was well x
Dear Claire,
Thank you so much for your comment! Alan was indeed a lovely gentleman and amazing dancer. We are so sorry for your loss. Don't know if you're a dancer or are ever near Tampa, Florida, but we would love to have you visit Rhapsody Ballroom whenever you can so that we can meet you in person!
God bless,
Laurie & Richard
hi thanks for the reply
Would love to visit but I live in the uk maybe one day xxx
You're very welcome, Claire! Hope to meet you one day! We're only a few minutes from Busch Gardens, less than an hour from Orlando (Disney World and Sea World) and very near beautiful beaches! God bless.
I have been to Busch gardens and sea world I
Love Florida x
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